When I was younger, before children younger, I could work and carry on a conversation at the same time (without making mistakes), somewhere along the way, I lost that ability. I noticed this big time the last few "get togethers" I hosted.
People will come over, pull out a chair, sit down and talk...which is great, but I can't seem to function when I feel I need to listen to what they are saying, give back some sort of comment and finish what I'm working on. I get flustered...But, if they offer to help, I seem to be able to both carry on a conversation and finish those last minute preparations with no problem. Hmmm, anyone else have this problem???
Before Andy (my chef son) moved to Cincinnati, I helped him prepare and make four luncheons for
Noel at Noon Christmas concerts at our church. Back then, I still had to word my questions and comments just right so he wouldn't take them the wrong way and start an argument, so I was a little nervous attempting to cook with him. I found that my nerves were for nothing, he nicely told me what he needed help with and nicely offered suggestions to make the task easier. Whew, what a relief. After a while I got over the fear of possible arguments and let myself be Me. (this may sound a bit strange, but there was a period of about 3 years where we did not have a good relationship, and barely talked. I am very thin skinned, taking most comments the wrong way, and he liked to challenge and argue and always get the last word in. I finally figured out to stop talking when he started nit picking and it worked. Sort of like a reverse time out. I've always said he would have made a great debator. We have gotten over that horrible phase, thank you God for answering my prayers, and he has figured out a lot since he's moved, about why his Dad and I did the things we did the way we did...what makes us tick.
Anyway, the kitchen is the heart of the home, so people say, and I have to agree. It's comforting to hang out in the kitchen.
We used to have upper cabinets hanging over the peninsula, but I always ended up leaning on the counter and peering under the cabinets at who ever was sitting at the bar. I finally suggested taking them down and using them in the breakfast nook as a sort of hutch. We cut old spindles from our staircase railing and used them for short legs, I took the doors off the back and put in painted beadboard, took off two doors on the front and use that side for my cookbooks and finally I put on a painted top with some trim.
(We are so Green around here it sometimes gets depressing.)
Now I no longer have to lean so far down on the counter, although I do still lean on it.
This kitchen looked totally different when it was my Grandma's kitchen, but we remodeled it when I was pregnant with Andy, because it didn't have a good flow, or enough cabinets, the flooring was very strange, etc. If we were remodeling it now, I would do things much differently, but kitchens are very expensive to remodel and I can live with it the way it is. But, if we ever move, I want a large open kitchen with a huge center island that we can eat at. One like most of you have!
Here is the heart of my home...
you might be able to tell that I love tins...
I have lots more-
in my work room
and on the wall going to the basement
good thing my hubs doesn't hate them ;-)
this was my dinner Wednesday
peanut butter on apples is way better
than peanut butter on toast
I had to share with Annie
Stop and visit these lovely ladies and take a look at their kitchens or what they chose for the word kitchen
11 comments:
love this peek into your kitchen! and i have the same issue with cooking and talking. i think my brain changed when my kids were born.
This is my favorite prompt in a long time. I love seeing into all these hardworking kitchens. They are the heart of the home and I feel like getting a peek at them is to know you better.
I love the seperate area where your barstools are. And you really have great storage. :) Love it.
Yep kitchens TOTALLY are the heart of the home. I just did food - not a shot of my kitchen. But I loved seeing yours!
Warm and cozy, love it.
I love your kitchen!!!! It's the perfection between some new and some old!
Your kitchen looks so cozy and inviting. Who needs an island? i would totally eat there. :)
i love that your kitchen has such history and stories behind it. your pendant lights are so pretty. don't we all wish we could change a little something about our kitchen? it is so fun to see what yours looks like :)
what a cozy kitchen, I love how warm it feels!
I love your creativity with taking down the cabinets and making it into that hutch!! I think it looks great! I would have never ever thought of that. My creative brain doesn't translate to that stuff. Maybe it's bc I've never had the chance to do it since I've never owned a home?
Love the peek into your kitchen. And now everything I see "tins" I will think of you!
cute kitchen! i love that you did take out the cabinet over the peninsula. love where you guys put it! ;)
your kitchen reminds me of those cute diners. love the wall art!! :)
i am not one to argue and don't like debates for that reason. i always avoid because sometimes, my actions speak louder than words..... yikes.
The kitchen is always the heart of the the home, isn't it?! Yours looks quite cozy and inviting. I can imagine sitting and chatting and drinking wine. Love your gas stovetop...someday I'll have one...someday. ;) I try to avoid the debaters, though I live with one. It can make for some tense and anxious times for me. I don't talk quite as much as I used to.
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